Be the main character in your own life. Reply reply. She went through chemo, and her cancer is now in remission. Also bring up the fertility issue after a few dates, regardless of sexual contact. Taurus is earth - and is not very feeling oriented or senstivie. I adore in a very special way all of the Cancers I've met so far. Let him talk. One person he cheated with is his wife’s ex friend, who “seduced him just to see if he would cheat” and he did. He died right after his 64th birthday. It’s really good when it’s good, but when it isn’t it can require a lot of work on both sides. if not, worse. Capricorn typically values loyalty which cancer delivers in spades. I am a Scorpio woman dating a Cancer man for 3. The crown of her head is bald and she has patches of hair around it. I (25F) have been in remission for a few months now after a cute little lymphoma moment. They got married has 2 beautiful sons. I think they are pretty sweet relationship overall. Dating for men these days is such a shit show, that I look back at some of my ex's who weren't entirely bad and wished I could have put more effort at the time to make things work, rather than be stuck single like I am today. Don’t need to feel guilty and don’t need to feel you are still a patient. Virgo Venus and Mercury. Not really my vibe but they make caring and connected friends. Even the little white ones. Gemini man: High school romance, we had fun and sex was good but he cheated constantly and we fought a lot. Musk is a Cancer too and imo he speaks nonsenses) they speak the truth what they think about world, life (often their opinions are truthful and well thought). Just be you and I'm sure it'll turn out fine. He was originally given 1-2 years but now, after almost 2 years, his treatment is going well and we hope for clear scans soon. I can be myself with her, she's legit my best friend. Thats how most people seem to annoy him. The Sun is generous and shines indiscriminately to all people and all things (which is amazing in small doses but too much Sun is a problem). Someone's dealbreaker might be cancer. If you have had a cancer, done the chemo or treatment, now you are free of cancer. So I(F23) have been dating with this cancer (M25) for a short time. I am still young (male in my early 30's), and apart from cancer, I am healthy. If Jun 7, 2024 · Sag female here. He has been in treatment before, with the first diagnosis something like 8-9 years ago. he was even making I found that due to being a Gemini and thus highly adaptable to different situations, lifestyles, and surroundings that I easily slid into her concept of home and routine. I feel the way you felt with your Leo , strangely enough Leo is the one fire sign I haven't dated. The accuracy of this. Right before their wedding. I'm not ashamed of my scars, but I also realize that I have a few more issues to consider when dating. You have misread the situation my dude. Before Covid I had dated a women who had breast cancer and in the process of her treatment had had her breasts removed, and the chemo/meds were real. I'm speaking generally of course. If “YOU” are already worth it, then losing access to “YOU” already “is” the “revenge. My last serious person was as an Aries and I’ll never again date one as long as I can help it lol he brought out the worst in me and was just not a good partner. Make eye contact and look at their mouth and then back to their eyes so they can get an idea of what is about to happen an lean in a little and watch for what happens. Jul 30, 2021 · Once a Cancer man decides he’s able to trust you, he won’t hesitate to ask you out. Even if they are not football players or stereotypical in playing out that male role, I find that they do not relate to women the same as they do towards men. Especially Leo Moon. I have been reading other posts on cancer men and I need advice on a male Cancer friend I’m currently dealing with. 5 months. Crypto Another cancer man post…. Both signs are passionate, sensitive, and love cuddling. Fire and water can work but of course the whole chart needs to be taken into account and if the individuals are evolved or not is important. I would have filled in first few weeks later, I stick my penis was etc. They tend to have the most beautiful, dreamy eyes. Speaking strictly of a relationship between a cis cancer man and a cis Aries woman, that’s probably not gonna work. I miss him everyday, he taught me to seek happiness, laughter, sadness heartbreak I am libra ,I dont really know any cancer people. We had great chemistry and both are comfortable when we’re with each other. WishboneNo2906. Read Linda Goodman’s Sun Signs on this pairing, it is beautifully written and accurate for me. He was extremely narcissistic, bipolar, and just traumatized from his childhood. He would call himself the luckiest man alive. I can tell you everything from the lyrics to Gilligan's Island to why stars explode. Yall are compatible lol. he does everything he can to care about and please people around him. The most fulfilling and complimentary I've ever had actually. I have a 4th date tentatively planned for next week. My boyfriend is a Cancer and we have such a nurturing and intuitive relationship. Leo mars. Cancers are loving and loyal human beings. Aries are definitely emotional but hide it under ego & temperament and cancers are sensitive and more openly emotional. I am a cancer Venus married to a cancer sun. The necessity of a Taurus to been understood in their stubbornness is complimented by the empathy of a Cancer. In easier words, chemistry is great, if you have shared interests it’s even better. Libra men often stay in abusive and toxic relationships. Did the slow fade or for lack of better words froze the f up and like stopped progressing. Your beliefs fuel your reality. Love: They always want to know about your life, job, family, etc. Dating after cancer. Depends on your moon signs if they are the same/same element, then Scorpio+cancer are great together. I started dating my partner around the time of his Stage 4 diagnosis. Maybe you'll make him mad a little less. Cancer is a guarded sign, very private and not willing to expose their vulnerabilities to just anyone. As a Cancer man who is married to a Pisces woman. ”. This was 3 months into us dating. I'm a Taurus Sun and Rising and so our desire to care for eachother in all ways is a beautiful thing. Which is such a breath of fresh air. She's about 3-4 inches taller than me hence the lukewarm thing. Personally, if I were single, the absence of breasts would be a non-issue, but fertility could be a serious one. But that’s not akin to “hating” them. I can’t really relate to these negative comments about Cancers at all, seems like a lot of random generalizations. Now to the relevant part, we are an open/poly couple, so dating after surgery is something I am starting to deal with again. Disclosing cancer straightaway can change things, but also if the person is interested in you fully, they wouldn’t bat an eyelid about the cancer especially if it is being managed very well. The taller they are, the harder they fall. He (34M) is the first guy I've (33F) met with potential in a long time. A subreddit for folks nearing or over 30 who are looking for dating advice. We're full of surprising things. They are very sexual. They did studies and women found 80% of the men on dating apps unattractive while the men found a much higher percentage of women attractive. Okay, I dated one a few months ago. The soulmate connection of Scorpio and Cancer. We are tender-hearted, and we wear our emotions on our sleeves. E. I dated my first and last Cancer male at the ages of 15 to 17. Came on super strong, opened up and expressed feelings for me. High level of affection and attention and things going great. Skip to main content. Give me an idea what I am getting myself into. When issues arise, never took accountability and always was the victim. Silver-Text-4862. If someone talks shit about a person who doesn't deserve it in front of cancer, she will defend them. I (33f) recently divorced and am in remission from lymphoma. Maybe therapy would help you get that part of you back that is so much more important than ejaculating, which honestly doesn't mean much. Sometimes, the best “revenge” is to respect 🫡 other people’s “choices. A few weeks later told me he had been crushing on me since the beginning of this year and didn't approach me because I was dating someone else at that time. In 2009 I was diagnosed with brain cancer and given 18 months to live. Yes I would like to know first. I'm a Cancer with Moon in Scorpio, Rising Libra and lots of fire in my chart coupled with some air. Dating Cancer man. A knight in shining armor. MembersOnline. 1. Cancer is water - very sensitive, thin boundaries, feels what others feel. For example, I would show up somewhere around our friends in a really hot dress. He is very kind, generous and affectionate. Some people can't deal with crazy in-laws, time consuming hobbies, addiction, large debt, mental health issues, or having a different religion, etc. Being feminine signs, the men tend to be macho. I’ve been dating Cancer man and we’ve been intimate. What I have surmised from observing her behavior toward me and what she has told me, she is reserved and taking things slow. Sharing astrology memes and open ended/lighthearted astrology discussions… I don’t think women hate Virgo men especially. •. Should I risk my emotional sanity because i tend to rush and overthink a lot. I have lost a member of my family to cancer, had a parental figure with a cancer scare, and I’ve lost family to other diseases. She is not entirely bald. 10 years later his chivalr Now, she is a Cap Sun, Cancer Moon, Pisces Rising, lots of Capricorn placements, Saturn in Pisces (if that's important) and also some air in her chart. Taurus doesn't want anything to do with that feeling stuff. Second: self-esteem is shaken after cancer and divorce, I think a lot of things can be psychological because love doesn't care about these things (the other's love and self-love). Am I just don't care if it's in my head. Yes I would date. they just always seem to be out of my I (24F) have started dating a cancer man. He was a beautiful person. I was terrified and legit worried she’d try to harm me. I always go for fire sign, but this time I tried a different element -earth. Honestly, dating apps are not the way to go if you’re a man. . Some people are going to be more or less compatible with you. He complimented me a lot on the date even after he dropped me off he said he had an amazing time despite me being awkward & nervous and I was gorgeous. Oof. She is a person I admire a lot - very hard working, ambitious, with an organized life. However, the other side of that would manifest as extremely controlling (i'm an Aquarius, it wasn't a good fit) and he had this superhero complex where he would constantly try to save everyone. 183K subscribers in the astrologymemes community. They’re highly emotional and sensitive beings, dating one rn and they like being babied, can be very possessive and jealous as well but in a healthy way. Now I say I'm a cancer male because I very truly am the zodiac describes me to a fucking tee. [deleted] • 3 yr. Gemini man: First big serious relationship. You begin to obsess over your profile, your pictures, your bio, you ask women for feedback, you ask men for feedback. I feel that he wants to take things slow. I prefer men who treat me like they would treat a man. He expressed interest in me but was super non-aggressive about it so I ended up dating more Yes! My uncle got terminal cancer at 28. Initially when we met, he told me he didn't know me and approaching me was random. he then had cancer 6 more times. We're sensitive, so deal with it. I would get at least a dozen compliments from both men and women on how I look gorgeous or stunning or This might be the most emo Cancer post ever. i’m biased and probably doesn’t have to do with astrology but i was involved with a cancer man once and it was one of the worst experiences of my life. I am currently fighting cancer. I know a Cancer who is married to the loveliest, most understanding, loyal and supportive woman. If you don’t want to wonder too much, maybe just straight out ask him what’s going on. Online dating, women treat you like you’re disposable, match and never talk; not because there’s anything wrong with you but because she has so many options almost no one is worth it. We met on an online dating site ten years ago. Yes, and I have dated people with cancer. Both these things happened after I broke things off. Dating post cancer. I wouldn’t date a man with children either. My boyfriend’s sister is a Cancer sun, Sagittarius moon and she is engaged to a Sagittarius sun, Leo moon. I know that my Cancer ex thought/thinks I’m beautiful and is still very attracted to me, but his compliments were scarce, subdued, or fondly sarcastic. Never again in life! I have worked with a lot of female Cancers over the years and they are even worse than the male Cancers! I cannot stand them at all. So you see how the moon sign can really make a huge difference and so can the rising sign. mikuooeeoo. But then again, 1/2 of men get cancer in their lifetime, and 1/3 of women, so maybe it's not as big of an issue as I thought. Some of the best friends I’ve had in my life were cancer WOMEN as an Aries woman myself. ADMIN MOD. Omg as a Pisces women I cannot with Cancer men one bit. yeah he wants you to be "mommy," but the secret is he wants to be mommy too! I've been with a cancer man for 7 years and all I have to do is bat my eyelashes and say "I'm sick" and he'll wait on me hand and foot all day. Sylvester Stallone is a Cancer male. Capricorns and Cancers. Everything I could ever want in a man. I have very limited experience dating Cancer women due to rarely ever dated one. I’ve seen many Aries let down their gaurd and become vulnerable enough to share feelings and cry. We're usually the funniest people in the room. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. Whiney sick with various fake ailments all the time just so they can complain more. He will give it in return, as I know all Aries are the infants of the zodiac, and want to be tended to as well, but his moods will always rule him. I'm a Nov Scorpio rekindling a relationship with a Cancer, it's been 20 an when we found each other we still connected, but we've both are guarded him more than me. Get out there and date when you're ready! We talked all night and had a steamy encounter just before dawn. I'm a 30 (m) who just got out of a 10 year relationship in july. Don't be pessimistic or idealist - be realistic. r/Scorpio A chip A close button A chip A close button The stability of a Taurus is comforting to the emotions of a Cancer. Just like a cancer can be pressed far enough to become cold and cut throat. g. Cancer. Be interested. I’m a 32m, and I’m looking for an eventual life partner with whom I could have a family. Besides, if you live every day, as if it is your last day, it does not matter how long you have together. Love this combo. I'm a Scorpio sun and when I started learning about Cancerian energy, it was after I had met the first person I was exclusive with and because my first commitment relationship was also with a Cancer as well. My worst relationship was with a Scorpio sun, Cap moon. Its stage IV but treatable, and provided treatments continue to work I should still live a fairly long life. My wife is a cancer sun Gemini moon cancer rising. I have since elected to not date another one, lol - the juice is just not worth the squeeze. 3. She has seen many specialists about this Cancer 38(F) dating a Taurus man 37(M) So I was really hopeful, I finally met this Taurus Guy that I really click with (dating since 4 months), we had some great dates and what felt like he was chasing me I was letting him lead all the time to gauge his level of interest, until the time that I actually felt like he was falling for me in the 3rd MOD. Cancer and Scorpio are trines in the zodiac. I have found a good 75% of the women out Hello men of Reddit, I'm a 24 year old female, and don't have a lot of confidence when it comes to dating, mostly because of my medical history. Cancer men: if they are mentally healthy (because E. I recently sent him a vulnerable lengthy text declaring how I feel about him and how I want to know him more deeply. Not sure if this is a personality thing or horoscope related but this is my experience FYI. I think we are two of the few signs were even our toxic traits actually balance one another out lol I’m drawn to Capricorns like a moth to a flame and my 5H (love affairs, creativity, children, dating, casual sex, pleasure, entertainment) is in Capricorn and my 7H (marriage, business partners, one-on-one, partnerships) is in Pisces but Saturn is in there indicating I’ll be drawn to more mature partners, someone either older or an older Cancer moon- they’re beautiful hearts who want to love you but it can be a bit suffocating at times-when their full focus is on you it can feel like everything depends on you. etc. But me and the cancer guy have had many talks already with how we feel with each other after our first date and where we want things to go. I’m a Pisces woman currently dating a Cancer man (16 months together now)- honestly it has not been easy. We have been together for 17 years and i am still excited to go home to hang with her. We Caps love solving other people's problems. Virgo men do have a reputation of arguing/debating in circles as well as being overly critical. Have touch and empathy for her and her times, ask how Is everything going and listen to her vent better than give her solutions or jugdment, I'm a csncer woman dating scorpio man, match made in heaven, willing yo travel through hell if necessary. child #2 has been seeking this advice by sending nudes. : r/astrologymemes. He responds ) with one sentence that “he’s glad He is a cancer so his moods will changed every 3 1/2 days with the moon and always be dependent on it but all cancer men want to be mothered or tended to in some way. Once again, women can smell it from a mile away. Depends if you are dating a cancer sun or cancer moon. Maybe I’ll feel differently in 10 or 15 years, but for now this situation sounds like dating a single dad - which I am not into. Chemistry was fantastic but the drama and moodiness was just too damn much. We're good at it. Virgo sun, Scorpio rising, Cancer moon. Cancer is also misunderstood as being unable to control emotions when actually it is the most emotionally intelligent and perceptive, its adaptive and dependable and they play the looong game in romance and friendship. On the other hand they are secretive about their true inner feelings. Still probably not for me, perhaps because I’m on the low end of over forty. He’s cheated on her at LEAST 8 times with 8 different women (that we’re aware of). So I’m a cancer woman who was talking to a Aries man for a week we went out on a date a few days ago and I was visibly Nervous but he kept reassuring me that he liked me. We've been on just one date and it was one of the best dates I've had. I have been dating a bit since then, and I can't figure out when to tell the people I'm seeing that I have had cancer, and that it could potentially come back (HK lymphomas are very treatable and the relapse percentage is not that high I suggest bringing it up before getting naked and/or having sexual contact. I called him out of town. It is not a type that would affect me being able to have children, or disfigure me, or cause any other such issues. It's awesome, I give her what she wants as I am the more emotional one. Just acknowledge their feelings and try to make them understand that they can show their emotional side around you because it takes time for them to trust people. As a Dating a cancer patient. I find cancer females very agreeable and easy to talk to. Cooking a meal, lighting candles or putting up pretty lights, its not just about atmosphere but comfort cuz of the cancer, it needs to feel safe like you create a space that can can show you all the sides of him even the sad ones and you won’t judge him. Don't be pessimistic. I was having a very hard time because of cancer but now I don’t see any problem for dating etc. Leo and Pisces moon COULD be a good match but it’s still fire and water so watch out. At the beginning of the date, he says he needs to tell me something. he was acting around me as if we were a couple in front of his friends. My mom is the 1 in 10,000 (or some crazy statistic) whose hair never grew back after chemo. I wouldn’t call them co dependent per day, at least not intentionally, but Libra men (similar to Cancer women) love being in serious relationships. They just radiate it out. I (32F) met an amazing man (35M), and we had our fourth date yesterday. My cheating ex was a Cancer and I know multiple Pisces women who have have bad experiences with Cancer men in romantic relationships. (Cancer Sun & Rising, Libra Moon, Leo Venus) I could use some insight and support around dating. The person was very kind, compassionate, funny and sensitive. Aries loves going against conventions All this being said. I commit to the wrong people for far too long, I blow past red flags and instead see the best in people. ok, so he is quite shy although he made the first move. Eventually it will "calm down" :). I feel like when both signs are mature we are a dynamic duo with one another and not just relationship wise but friendship and business partnerships as well. . It is done already. I would not go out and actively seek that person, but if I met a lady, and she revealed that she had cancer, it would not change the way that I felt about her. And I can totally relate with you as well, I’ve searched high and low, almost 90% tells me that Taurus and Cancer sun signs are soulmate level compatibility. I had a cancer close friend through high school and college. I found out he was engaging in flirtatious daily convos with a few other girls he was seeing I'm a Cancer Male, need help not being clingy. Expect a very romantic first date, with lots of affection and emotional vulnerability from this person. I dont care what anyone say we need one another lol. Think ur gonna need the whole chart but from that. Prestigious_Bat1140. GameStop Moderna Pfizer Johnson & Johnson AstraZeneca Walgreens Best Buy Novavax SpaceX Tesla. he doesn’t want to loose control and is scared of relationships because he saw too many break ups around him, based on what he said. Luckily we are back stronger than ever now. I’m a Leo woman dating a cancer man and we’re pretty much inseparable, affectionate, silly, supportive, have a lot of sex and communicate really well. I sort of assumed the mom couldn’t be left alone, I guess that would make situation better. Yes, it's this bad. If you've had a long run of bad luck in dating it may make you feel defeated and bitter towards women or other men. Turns out he is a cancer patient and is going to start a new round of chemo this month. Our Mercury is highly compatible so we can ADMIN MOD. You don’t need to “add” anything “more” to the mix in order to make the “punishment” more “felt. If you ask for advice, then take it. 20 votes, 18 comments. Despite grief and stress for both of us he continues to be a great partner and I wouldn't change my decision to date him. It just wants a pleasant interchange. This is very challenging to confront at a peek. cce_31. My mom is a Cancer, and we don't get along at all. ago. " cross to comply, still in control, understand a hand, a hand moved me, just like a station on the radio. One in remission and one who was receiving chemotherapy. I have to say I have the most chemistry with them tho. Generally speaking, traits of being judgmental, two-faced and overly-emotional are not really (Sun sign) Cancerian, sorry to break-up the cliche. I did a lot of research on the sign and the more I learned, the more attracted The cancer man I dated, was, at his core, an incredibly caring and loving man. Women will talk shit about every sign of man because difficult/terrible dating experiences are simply unavoidable. Cancer being a water sign will feel more grounded in earthy energy of CAP. I thought we were on a page of building something together. I am a Capricorn Sun & Moon and Aquarius Rising with Aquarius Venus woman. But the rest of the chart matters a lot. Red Scare is a podcast hosted by @annakhachiyan and @nobody_stop_me Everybody Knows This Is Nowhere "But it is the most (inaudible)y god damned board you could ever imagine. Unsure if it’s the same with a male Sag however, when I, female Sag, dated a Cancer male I ultimately pulled away because he was just too emotional and clingy for me. We’ve done all the things that couples do like holding hands and kissing in public but we still in a stage to get to know each other better. amecham. and he too made me feel normal,and doesn't compromise my personality, I felt myself changing with the fire signs I dated. Cancer Men. Everyone has dealbreakers. 2. So you’re already playing at a massive disadvantage unless you’re a super good looking dude. Currently, I have been on 3 dates with a Cancer woman. As a 34F Cancer, I have had such a challenge with dating. Taurus moons love tangible things that activate the 5 senses. Cancer being more emotional will elicit protection and caring and helps balance out Capricorn which can be more (too) rational. I thought it would be because we are both water signs but I tend to bump heads with Cancers in general so that doesn’t help lol. All Libra men truly want is marriage with “the one” where the relationship is calm, loving, romantic and minimal fighting. They can be cocky, and insecure at the same time. Neither sign is too wacky so you have down to earth people who can work through issues together without getting in blowout fights. They can always tell when someone is upset, super intuitive. Pisces man here. Reading Request - Synastry Taurus and Cancer don't necessarily go together well. People on paid dating sites such as eHarmony or Match seem to be a lot more serious about nonsurface level attraction. Some ask alot of question out of genuine curiosity. Business, Economics, and Finance. Two years ago, my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. Communication, patience and timing are essential. Give him one good kiss or hand hold and he'll follow you JB_NSA. 1 in 2 will get cancer in their lifetime, so it’s either you or that person to put it into context as well. I had a Cancer who told me she was in love with me on a 2nd date and it freaked me out. Dont know his moon and raising ,but mine is Capi and… I’m a Scorpio woman and was dating a cancer. Strong heart chakra, as well as root chakra imo. Classyclassiccunt. I survived that, and went into remission. I find some have that look of pity in thier eyes when they hear I have had cancer. Let’s just say it was quite tumultuous, never could open up to him because of his inability to see things from my perspective. After a baseball date in the city some guys started shooting at each other on the block we were walking on and he instinctively covered me with his whole body. Help! Another cancer man post…. I was paid to be quite lost. I generally can’t stand Scorpio suns Cancer is initially a forgiving temperament. 4. He is very emotional but he’s still a Cancer so he’s very protective about that and this also depends on his whole chart especially his rising. I’m a Leo sun/Leo rising/Pisces moon and he’s Sep 19, 2015 · Encouragement along the way is much appreciated. Truthfully any match can be beautiful with one skill involved: understanding Together for 14 years and still kicking 😂 I honestly think it’s just the honeymoon phase! I'm also a pisces woman and my boyfriend is also a cancer and we would see each other 3-4 a week in the beginning (which is a lot, when you know that both of us had weird work schedule! anytime we would have a free time in common, it was spent with each other). Why are Cancer men like this?! Cancer. Y'all are sleeping on cancer men. I was my uncles End of life care. sabrinastanley9. The cancer moodiness is there but it doesn't necessarily play a big part, due to other signs in other houses in the chart, etc. If this person leans back, to the side, freezes, then abort the mission. r/datingoverthirty. I crave another deeply emotional relationship, I'm extremely protective which can be misconstrued as controlling. The Cancer showed up to my home at night and refused to leave and she also showed up to my workplace and refused to leave. js se ye cg mv lt qj mm ih eo